Life By Design Podcast
Yes, it's true!
 
You'll probably have to read this article a couple of times to really come to grips with what's being said.
 
What's even more shocking is that at the end of the article you can see that in other places even balls have been banned from schools.
 
On the surface, this might seem like no big deal "It's just cartwheels and balls, who really cares?" But, there is something much bigger happening under the surface and that 'much bigger' is the development of self-responsibility.
 
As Dr. Nathaniel Branden taught us, the practice of Self-Responsibility is a pillar for creating high self-esteem in your child. It's a way of helping your child realize that their actions have real consequences to their life and if they fail to accept responsibility for things they did; they might be stuck in an awful life. 
 
The purpose of this podcast is to discuss the proper development of self-responsibility in children, how we completely agree that as a parent it's very likely one of your goals (or should be) and how you can facilitate the development of responsibility in your child. 
 
What we covered:
  • The 6 Pillars Of Self-Esteem, specifically the Practice of Self-Responsibility.
  • Why letting kids fail (in this case get hurt, or maybe even injured) is central and pivotal to the development of adults, and why bypassing this responsibility will create nothing but older children who are unable to manage the stress of adulthood.
  • Why it's important to remember that the flip side of risk is reward and every time we limit what our children can (or should be able to do) we are in fact limiting a potential reward they could be experiencing. Is it worth it?
Direct download: 238_Cartwheel_Now_Banned_At_School.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 3:00pm EDT

Back to school, back to routine, back to being busy.

Back to school is my favorite time of year. It reminds me of fall, football, warm and cozy sweaters...all of which make this my favorite season.

Unfortunately, it leads to winter which is not awesome in this part of the world, but I guess that all comes with the territory.

What also tends to follow the change of seasons is the onslaught of cold and flu season. Sound about right?

But what if it didn't have to be that way?

What if there was a chance, just maybe, that we're looking at this whole germ thing the wrong way?

I mean seriously thinking about it... I bet you that you know someone who is never sick. So it begs the question, how did they get that way, what can we learn from them and, can we duplicate the results?

The purpose of this episode is to help you create a plan of action that will create a stronger, better immune system for your child and keep them from being sick on a more consistent basis.

What we covered:

  • Why germs are not the cause of your child's sickness (flu, cold or otherwise) or illness and the real underlying reason your kid gets sick. I know this sounds shocking, but it's honestly a game changer if you can apply it and make it real for your family.
  • What the most controllable factor is in keeping your children healthy and as sickness free as possible as they groove their way into the new school year.
  • The importance of the nerve system in fighting off infection. This is the most overlooked area of health for most families.
  • 4 other vital steps to include to keeping your child healthy.

 

Direct download: 237_Is_Your_Child_Ready_For_Sick_Season.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 4:18pm EDT

This week Dr. Kreso and Dr. Rachelle's son Ari started Montessori full time. 
 
As it turned out, Ari was not quite ready to be away from his mom for such a long period of time, so Kreso and Rachelle decided that the right thing to do would be to focus on half days only.
 
Why should you care about that?
 
Our intuition is telling us that sometimes we (ourselves included) put a short term vision for our children ahead of the long term goals we have for them. 
 
Sometimes it's easy to substitute what you want for your kids future for what they can handle in that moment. 
 
There is no judgment with that statement - in fact, we are making it from experience. 
 
It's easy to get caught up with what others are doing and how quickly some kids develop vs. other kids. We feel like it's important to never compare kids but to keep our eyes on the long term prize. 
 
The purpose of this episode is to take a step back from the 'parenting game' and make sure we are keeping the end goal in mind. 
 
What we cover:
  • What, in our opinion, is the purpose of parenting and what we really dislike about today's parenting trends. There are just some trends these days that are wrong and we need to talk about them.
  • Why the long game is far more important than the short game, yet it seems like most parents are concerned with short term success over the long term gain.
  • Why self-esteem and creating a winning inner state is really where long term success is at and how we think you can do that.
Direct download: 236.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 3:45pm EDT

Have you ever wondered why the world seems like such a mess sometimes?
 
Why does it still feel like we live in the dark ages - especially when it comes to the way people treat each other? 
 
We've been taught, for generations, that the plight of the world is caused by people who only care about themselves.
 
But could that be wrong? And, what's wrong with loving yourself? Is it really that bad?
 
Well, if you ask us, not only is loving yourself the beginning to your happiness and quality of life, but it's also the beginning of making the world a better place.

Trust us, we know how crazy that might sound, and we're not asking you to believe us; just give us listen and see if you agree.
 
The purpose of this podcast is to help you understand how important you (the individual) are to enjoying your life on this planet and why favoring the group over the individual is a cause of a lot of human suffering.
 
What we covered:
  • It's easy to sense the political injustice in the world; which is a fair assessment. However, more challenging and ALMOST completely ignored - is the philosophical roots of politics, namely metaphysics, epistemology, and ethics. No this is not a political podcast, and we won't spend much time on the topic, but we guarantee that if you can get morality right - politics will follow suit.
  • Why it's OK (good in fact) to value yourself first. No, this doesn't make you a jerk, or hateful of other people, in fact, it's the only way to properly establish the right foundation for human flourishing.
  • How to begin to value yourself more and what that will make your life look like. Trust us - you'll love it. 
Direct download: 235_Who_Do_You_Owe.mp3
Category:general -- posted at: 3:00pm EDT

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